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Sometimes it happens to us that we are being divorced or want a divorce. In response to this reality, a marriage counselor gives us a series of precepts as guidance in processing a separation situation. Having a realistic perspective on love separations can make all the difference in how we further love in life. This article is good for ourselves and for friends we know going through a relating crisis. From studying this list you can make your own list for handling a love crisis. Or simply take this list and discuss it with a partner or friend for insights into your reality.

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Dear Concerned, As the professional that I am supposed to be, you cannot get an answer from me whether to divorce or not? Yet, you have stated your issues very clearly. So I give some observations, which I offer in general from experience in working with myself and others, and many couples.
Continue reading Couple Separation Crises – Do’s And Don’ts

Kayla’s husband Jon is an expert at getting out of things he doesn’t want to do. He “forgets” to stop by the store on the way home from work when he doesn’t want to be bothered. If he doesn’t want to help Kayla with the house cleaning, he does such a poor job that she [...]

Your toughest competitor and critic will be none other than the woman who prepared your man’s food during his developmental years. It doesn’t matter if she was a good or bad mother, it doesn’t matter if she is living or dead; it doesn’t matter if she was an absent mother or a part of his [...]

Infidelity and the threat of it, is the largest single issue that threatens marriages. A basis of all healthy marriage is the ability to trust. It is not only the sexual betrayal but the lies that accompany infidelity that are so devastating. This break of trust need not be fatal; if both parties truly wish [...]

Is your spouse a negative person? Does he or she consistently zero in on what’s wrong with you and the marriage while overlooking the many positives? If so, it’s also quite possible that your spouse is just a negatively-oriented person about most things—work, the marriage, other people, the future, and life in general. Perhaps as [...]

Cyber affairs are the ‘flavor of the day’ when it comes to infidelity and extramarital affairs. The internet now ties with the workplace as the leading place for cheaters of both sexes to find willing partners with whom to have extramarital affairs. It has removed most of the risks associated with cheating on your mate. [...]